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The Fool and Wise Words – Audio
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Wise Words Regarding A Fool
Today is April 1, 2015. It is also known as “April Fool’s Day.” Perhaps there are those that try to pull a prank on someone, causing them to feel foolish. A man of God should not be foolish, but instead be wise. Let us consider a few wise words regarding the fool (Proverbs 26:1-12).
- In Proverbs 26:1, Solomon explains that snow is not fitting in summer; nor is rain fitting in harvest. Likewise, honor is not fitting to a fool.
- In Proverbs 26:3, Solomon says a whip is needed to guide the horse, and a bridle for the donkey. Likewise, a rod is needed for the fool’s back. David says that the horse or mule has no understanding, and must be harnessed with a bit and bridle (Psalm 32:9). Just as one beats them to guide them, Solomon earlier stated “judgments are prepared for scoffers, and beatings for the backs of fools (Proverbs 19:29).
- In Proverbs 26:4-5, a warning is issued not to answer a fool according to his folly. We should not be like them, but rather set the example for them. Sometimes it is best not to answer anything; other times it is best to give a soft answer, turning away wrath (Proverbs 15:1).
- In Proverbs 26:6-7, a warning is given on the thought of trusting a fool. They may not deliver the message accurately, and cause the sender of the message harm from the receiver.
- In Proverbs 26:8, one wouldn’t want to bind a stone in a sling that is used for something else; similarly, one would not want to give honor to a fool when none is due.
- In Proverbs 26:9, a thorn in the hand of a drunkard is very dangerous; likewise, putting a proverb in the mouth of a fool can be costly.
- In Proverbs 26:10, God will give the fool his due.
- In Proverbs 26:11, a fool will repeat his folly (like Pharaoh refusing to let God’s people go in Exodus).
- In Proverbs 26:12, there is more hope for a fool than for a man who is wise in his own eyes (Proverbs 29:20). Jesus illustrates this by the Pharisee’s prayer (Luke 18:10-14) and His words to the Laodicean church (Revelation 3:17).
Let us not act foolishly, but instead, help fools to become wise by sharing the love of Christ with them, that they too can become wise in the eyes of The Lord through obedience to the Gospel.
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Good Medicine for any Ailment
A merry heart is still good medicine!
“A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bone” (Proverbs 17:22).
We are what we think. Solomon said of man, “as he thinketh in his heart so is he” (Proverbs 23:7). Attitude plays an important part in our lives. A good attitude is a key to physical, emotional and spiritual wellbeing.
Physically, many health problems are the result, either directly or indirectly, of anxiety. It has been estimated that as many as two-thirds of all patients who see physicians have symptoms caused or aggravated by mental stress. Headaches, high blood pressure, hay fever and a host of other health problems can be directly linked to emotional stress. The key to good physical health begins with good mental health. Use good medicine. “A merry heart doeth good like a medicine.“
Emotionally, the greatest threat to our wellbeing is depression. I have in mind the kind of depression which results from our outlook. We must avoid the negative gloom and doom thinking which leads to discouragement. I realize that we all have good days and bad days, but for some the bad far outweighs the good, at least in their own eyes. These folks feel bad when they feel good for fear they will feel worse when they feel better. “A broken spirit drieth the bones.“
Spiritually, sin is a cancer eating away at the soul. It finds its greatest nourishment in an evil heart. Jesus said, “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh” (Matthew 12:34). It was also Jesus who said that from the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, and all things which defile a man (Matthew 15:19-20). What is needed is good medicine. In Christ we find a cure for the soul’s cancer (Romans 6:23).
“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life” (Proverbs 4:23). Here is the key to real physical, emotional, and spiritual health. A merry heart is still good medicine!
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Choose Your Friends Wisely
A person’s friends can reveal a lot about him. By associating with good people, a person becomes better; by associating with bad people, a person might get into trouble. It is always a struggle to see who has more influence: a person, or his friends.
The wise man wrote, “He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed (Proverbs 13:20).” He tells us that it is easier for others to influence us, rather than us to influence them. By associating ourselves with God’s people, we can be influenced for good and set better examples for the world. On the other hand, if we closely associate ourselves with those who do not live the kinds of lives that Christ would approve of, we can easily become corrupt.
The apostle Paul acknowledged, “Do not be deceived: ‘Evil company corrupts good habits (1 Corinthians 15:33).’” Earlier, he told the Corinthians and Galatians, “…Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump (1 Corinthians 5:6; Galatians 5:9)?” Just as others can influence us for evil, we should try to influence others for good!
Let us pick good friends, and be a good friend to others. Perhaps by doing something good, we can lead lost souls to Christ. Is He your friend? After all, we are friends of Christ if we do whatever He commands us (John 15:14).
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Are You Out Of Your Mind?
It seems like less and less people are getting along these days.
Players have different ideas on how to approach a game than their coaches; politicians can rarely agree on issues; family members can’t reunite due to lifestyle differences. Sadly, this even happens within the Lord’s church!
Paul implored Euodia and Syntyche to “be of the same mind in the Lord (Philippians 4:2).” One can only wonder what they were divided over, but one does know that Paul begged them to reconcile.
As Christians, we may have our differences; however, we are all members of the same body of Christ (1 Corinthians 12). What if we all looked out for ourselves? We would be divided, not united. This is not what Jesus prayed for (John 17:21), nor what Paul pleaded for (1 Corinthians 1:10).
We can be of the same mind toward one another when we put away our own minds. “Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus (Philippians 2:5).” If we think more like Christ and less like ourselves, we can get along!
If you are Euodia, who is your Syntyche? Get out of your own mind, and put on the mind of Christ!
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James 03:13-18 Wisdom: Heavenly vs. Earthly – audio
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Text: James 3:13-18
Introduction
1. In the book of Proverbs, we are encouraged to seek after wisdom – Proverbs 3:13-18; 4:7-9
2. Likewise, in the New Testament we are exhorted to walk with wisdom – Ephesians 5:15-17
3. But in James 3:13-18, we learn that there is more than just one kind of wisdom
4. In this lesson, we will take a look at what James describes as two different kinds of wisdom: heavenly wisdom vs. earthly wisdom
Body
I. A CONTRAST IN THEIR ORIGIN
A. EARTHLY WISDOM IS NOT FROM ABOVE
1. It is EARTHLY
a. It is worldly
b. Wisdom that is according to the world’s standards
c. But this wisdom is foolishness to God – 1 Corinthians 1:20
2. It is SENSUAL
a. Appealing to the senses, the emotions, the passions
b. Wisdom according to what FEELS right (But that doesn’t make it right)
3. It is DEMONIC
a. The kind of wisdom possessed by the devil and his angels
b. A wisdom that often finds its origin in the influences of Satan!
B. HEAVENLY WISDOM IS FROM ABOVE
1. It Comes from GOD – James 3:17
2. It Comes via PRAYER – James 1:5-8
II. A CONTRAST IN THEIR NATURE
A. EARTHLY WISDOM
1. Full of BITTER ENVY
2. Possessing SELF-SEEKING IN THE HEART
3. This wisdom extols as virtues such qualities as:
a. Power
b. Position
c. Privilege
d. Prestige
4. It was this kind of wisdom
a. That prompted Satan and his angels to rebel against God
b. That prompted the disciples to argue over who would be the greatest in the kingdom
B. HEAVENLY WISDOM
1. It is first PURE – James 3:17
a. Above all else, it is true to God’s Will
b. Not one to compromise truth for the sake of peace
2. Then it is PEACEABLE
a. Holding firm to the truth, it makes every effort to be at peace – Romans 12:18
b. For example, speaking the truth in an attitude of love – Ephesians 4:15
3. GENTLE
a. That is, kind in one’s dealings with others
b. Not harsh, even when right and dealing with those who differ – 2 Timothy 2:24-25
4. WILLING TO YIELD
a. Not in matters of truth
b. But in matters of opinion – Romans 14:1
c. In matters of liberty – Romans 14:19-21
5. FULL OF MERCY
a. Quick to forgive the offenses of others
b. Wisely understanding one’s own need of mercy – James 2:13
6. Producing GOOD FRUITS
a. Notice James 3:13, where it says we are to show by our conduct our true wisdom and understanding
b. This wisdom takes one beyond being a HEARER to being a DOER – James 1:22
c. Understanding that faith without works is dead – James 2:26
7. WITHOUT PARTIALITY
a. Showing no respect of persons – James 2:1-13
b. Rather, treating all fairly, on the same basis
8. WITHOUT HYPOCRISY
a. Indicating that all of the above is not an act, a show
b. But that it comes from a heart desiring to please God, not man
III. A CONTRAST IN THEIR FRUITS
A. EARTHLY WISDOM
1. Causes CONFUSION
2. And EVERY EVIL THING
3. Makes you wonder what kind of wisdom
a. Is behind denominationalism
b. Is often manifested in politics
B. HEAVENLY WISDOM – James 3:18
1. Produces PEACE, instead of confusion
2. Bears the fruit of RIGHTEOUSNESS, instead of every evil thing
Conclusion
1. Certainly when we compare their ORIGIN, NATURE and FRUITS, the wisdom to be preferred is HEAVENLY WISDOM
2. What kind of wisdom do we have?
a. Those who have EARTHLY WISDOM boast of theirs
b. While those who have HEAVENLY WISDOM show theirs by their good conduct done in meekness
3. What kind of wisdom do we want?
a. If EARTHLY, then no effort is necessary
1) Just do what the world tells you
2) Just do what feels right
b. But if HEAVENLY, then we must be diligent
1) To seek such wisdom from God
2) To demonstrate such wisdom by our conduct
4. What kind of wisdom do you have in regards to the gospel of Christ?
a. EARTHLY WISDOM makes no response to the gospel, or if any, only that which is convenient
b. HEAVENLY WISDOM receives the commands of the gospel joyfully and obediently – Mark 16:15-16; Acts 2:38
5. Have you demonstrated HEAVENLY WISDOM?
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Thoughts on Wisdom
How does the world’s wisdom compare with God’s wisdom?
Worldly wisdom is sensual and demonic, causing envy, self-seeking, confusion, and evil works.
God’s wisdom is pure, peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, and without partiality and hypocrisy (James 3:13-18)
How do men perceive God’s wisdom?
It is a stumbling block to the Jews (who seek a sign), and foolishness to the Greeks (who seek after wisdom).
The foolishness of God is greater than man’s wisdom, and His weakness is stronger than man’s strength (1 Corinthians 1:18-25)
Who is our wisdom?
Jesus Christ became wisdom from God (1 Corinthians 1:26-31)
Did some question Jesus’ wisdom?
Often as He taught in the synagogues, many marveled at His wisdom (Matthew 13:54ff)
Did Jesus have a limit in wisdom?
He increased in wisdom (Luke 2:52)
What can we learn in Christ?
The hidden treasures of wisdom and knowledge (Colossians 2:1-3)
Can we know the mystery of Christ?
It has been revealed to us through Christ Jesus (Ephesians 3:8-11)
How do we get wisdom?
God is willing to give us wisdom, but we must ask for it in faith without doubting (James 1:5,6)
Have you let the wisdom of God lead you to salvation in Christ?
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Ephesians 05:01-21 Walking in Love, Light and Wisdom
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Text: Ephesians 5:1-21
Introduction
1. Though we now enter chapter five, we are still noticing how to “walk worthy of the calling with which you were called” – Ephesians 4:1
a. We have been “called” to be
1) “holy and without blame before Him in love” – Ephesians 1:4
2) “sons by Jesus Christ to Himself” – Ephesians 1:5
3) “fellow citizens with the saints” – Ephesians 2:19
4) “members of the household of God” – Ephesians 2:19
5) “a holy temple in the Lord” – Ephesians 2:21
6) “fellow heirs, of the same body, and partakers of His promise in Christ” – Ephesians 3:6
b. What sort of “walk” is worthy of such a calling? So far we have seen that it is one in which we are
1) “Walking Together in Unity” – Ephesians 4:1-16
2) “Walking In Truth and Holiness – Ephesians 4:17-32
2. As we come into the fifth chapter, we learn that our “walk” (or conduct) which is worthy of our calling is one in which we
a. Walk In Love – Ephesians 5:1-7
b. Walk As Light – Ephesians 5:8-14
c. Walk As Wise – Ephesians 5:15-21
Body
I. WALK IN LOVE (Ephesians 5:1-7)
A. FOLLOWING CHRIST AS OUR EXAMPLE (Ephesians 5:1-2)
1. Jesus certainly has loved us and given Himself for us
2. He offered Himself to God as an offering and sacrifice in our behalf
3. Let His example teach us how to “walk in love” – cf. John 13:34-35; 1 John 3:16-17
B. WITH A LOVE THAT IS PURE (Ephesians 5:3-7)
1. Our love should be free from any hint of immorality or greed – Ephesians 5:3
2. Even words or jokes suggestive of immorality or greed are unbecoming those who are “saints” (holy, set apart for God’s purpose) – Ephesians 5:4
3. This is a serious concern, for immoral or greedy persons have no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ, but instead will experience the full wrath of God! – Ephesians 5:5-7
II. WALK AS LIGHT (Ephesians 5:8-14)
A. WE ARE NOW “LIGHT IN THE LORD” (Ephesians 5:8-10)
1. Before coming to Christ, we were once “darkness” (remember Ephesians 2:1-3); but now we are “light in the Lord” and should walk as “children of light” – Ephesians 5:8
2. The fruit expected of those children of light is goodness, righteousness and truth – Ephesians 5:9
3. By bearing such fruit, we fulfill our role as “light” by “proving” (demonstrating) what is well-pleasing to the Lord – Ephesians 5:10; cf. Romans 12:1-2
B. AS “LIGHT” WE MUST NECESSARILY EXPOSE “DARKNESS” (Ephesians 5:11-14)
1. We are not to have fellowship with “unfruitful works of darkness” – Ephesians 5:11, 5:3-4
2. Instead, our task is to “expose” them – Ephesians 5:11b-13
a. Things that we must expose are often so disgraceful, it is shameful to speak of them
b. But by “walking in the light” ourselves, we can through example and word expose by contrast these “works of darkness”
3. Thus the need to be “light” ourselves, something that comes only from Christ – Ephesians 5:14
a. Christ gives “light” to those who were spiritually asleep and dead – cf. Ephesians 2:4-6
b. Some scholars think this verse (Ephesians 5:14) may have been an early “baptismal hymn”, sung at a person’s baptism
III. WALK AS WISE (Ephesians 5:15-21)
A. CHARACTERISTICS OF “WALKING AS WISE” (Ephesians 5:15-17)
1. Doing so with great care – Ephesians 5:15
a. The word translated “circumspectly” means “exactly, accurately, diligently”
b. Unlike fools, who care little about where they are going or what is happening
2. Taking advantage of the time available to one – Ephesians 5:16
3. Understanding the will of the Lord – Ephesians 5:17
a. Only by understanding the will of the Lord can we be a “wise people”
b. Just as Israel was to demonstrate their wisdom by doing the will of the Lord, so we can “walk as wise” only if we understand His will for us – Deuteronomy 4:5-6
B. TO WALK AS WISE REQUIRES BEING “FILLED WITH THE SPIRIT” (Ephesians 5:18-21)
1. While those who “walk as fools” delight in being filled with wine, those who walk as wise” will endeavor to be filled with the Spirit!
2. What evidence is there that one is “filled with the Spirit”? Paul describes three indications…
a. One indication is singing praises – Ephesians 5:19
b. Another indication is giving thanks – Ephesians 5:20
c. A third indication is submitting to one another in the fear of God – Ephesians 5:21
Conclusion
1. Children of God who delight in:
a. Singing praises and making melody in the heart
b. Giving thanks always for all things to God
c. Submitting to one another in the fear of God
d. Demonstrate that they are “filled with the Spirit”, and as such, truly are “followers of God as dear children” – Ephesians 5:1
2. As children of God, and “filled with the Spirit”, they are able to walk in a manner worthy of their calling, as they:
a. “Walk in love”
b. “Walk as light”
c. “Walk as wise”
3. Brothers and sisters in Christ, we live in a world:
a. That has perverted the meaning of “love”
b. That takes perverse pleasure in works of darkness
c. That stumbles around aimlessly, like drunken fools
d. Can we not see the need for the people of God today to live up to their “calling”, and to “prove what is acceptable in the Lord”?
4. May God fill His children with His Spirit:
a. So that we can truly “walk in love”, “walk as light”, and “walk as wise”
b. And thereby show to the world the fruit of the Spirit, goodness, righteousness, and truth
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Galatians 04:16-20 True Friends and False Friends
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Text: Galatians 4:16-20
Introduction
1. Friends can be a wonderful blessing
a. A source of comfort in times good and bad – Proverbs 17:17
b. A source of good counsel – Proverbs 27:9
2. It is not always easy to know who your true friends are
a. Sometimes a true friend tells you what you don’t want to hear
b. Sometimes a false friend tells you what you do want to hear
3. In writing to the Galatians, Paul found it necessary to remind them of that truth
a. As he defended the gospel of justification by faith in Christ
b. As he battled against the influence of those who sought to bind the Law of Moses
Body
I. TRUE FRIENDS SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO HEAR
A. THEY WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH
1. Even if it makes them your enemy – Galatians 4:16
2. Even when the tone hurts – Galatians 4:20
3. Paul had been a true friend to his brethren
B. YOU NEED TRUE FRIENDS
1. When hearing the gospel of Christ
a. Who will tell you the full gospel as preached by Christ and His apostles – Mark 16:15-16
b. Not just what is popularly believed, or what may appeal to our sensitivities – Galatians 1:8-9
2. When growing in grace
a. Who will tell us of the need to grow, and the danger of apostasy – 2 Peter 3:17-18
b. Not just tickling our ears with things we enjoy hearing – 2 Timothy 4:3-4
3. When drifting from God
a. As Paul reached out to the Galatians in our text – Galatians 4:19-20
b. As Paul encouraged them to do the same to others – Galatians 6:1
4. Do we appreciate the value of such friends in our lives?
C. HEED THE WISDOM OF DAVID AND SOLOMON
1. “Let the righteous strike me; it shall be a kindness. And let him rebuke me; it shall be as excellent oil; let my head not refuse it.” – Psalm 141:5a
2. “Poverty and shame will come to him who disdains correction, but he who regards a rebuke will be honored.” – Proverbs 13:18
3. “The ear that hears the rebukes of life will abide among the wise. He who disdains instruction despises his own soul, but he who heeds rebuke gets understanding.” – Proverbs 15:31-32
4. “Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold is a wise rebuker to an obedient ear.” – Proverbs 25:12
5. May we always appreciate the value of true friends.
II. FALSE FRIENDS SAY WHAT THEY WANT YOU TO HEAR
A. THEY WILL TELL YOU WHAT THEY WANT
1. When it makes you on their side – Galatians 4:17
2. When you have something they want – cf. Galatians 6:12-13
3. The Judaizing teachers were not true friends of the Galatians
B. YOU NEED TO BEWARE OF FALSE FRIENDS
1. When you are being courted with zeal
a. Their motives may not be right – Galatians 4:17; cf. Romans 16:17-18
b. Their knowledge may be wrong – cf. Romans 10:1-2
2. When you are being manipulated
a. As the false teachers were trying to manipulate the Galatians – Galatians 4:17
b. A tactic first used by Satan, and since by many others – 2 Corinthians 11:3,13-15; 2 Peter 2:1-3
3. When you are pursued only in their presence
a. Paul sought their devotion even in his absence – Galatians 4:18; Philippians 1:27; 2:12
b. False friends often forget about you when they are no longer with you
4. Do we appreciate the danger of the wrong kind of friends?
C. HEED THE WISDOM OF SOLOMON
1. “Fervent lips with a wicked heart are like earthenware covered with silver dross. He who hates, disguises it with his lips, and lays up deceit within himself; when he speaks kindly, do not believe him, for there are seven abominations in his heart; though his hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness will be revealed before the assembly.” – Proverbs 26:23-26
2. “Open rebuke is better than love carefully concealed. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.” – Proverbs 27:5-6
Conclusion
1. Many people have been led astray by the wrong kind of friends
a. Good habits have been corrupted by bad company – 1 Corinthians 15:33
b. Immature Christians have been tossed around by cunning and deceitful teachers – Ephesians 4:14
2. May we learn from the interaction between Paul and the Galatians
a. True friends say what you need to hear
b. False friends say what they want you to hear
3. Speaking of true friends, the greatest friend we can have is Jesus – John 15:13-14
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Galatians 03:15-25 The Purpose of the Law
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Text: Galatians 3:15-25
Introduction
1. In teaching they were justified by faith in Christ, Paul reminded the Galatians that
a. They received the Spirit by the hearing of faith – Galatians 3:1-5
b. The heirs of Abraham were those “of faith” – Galatians 3:6-9
c. Those of the works of the Law were under a curse – Galatians 3:10-12
d. Christ has redeemed them from the curse of the Law, that even Gentiles could now receive the promise of the Spirit through faith – Galatians 3:13-14
2. With such comments regarding the Law, Paul anticipated a likely objection
a. What purpose did the Law then serve?
b. What was its relation to the promise given to Abraham?
3. We might also ask ourselves
a. What value does the Law (Old Testament) have for us today?
b. Do we even need to study it, since we are not under the Law?
4. Such questions are easily answered, first from our text (Galatians 3:15-25), and then from other statements of Paul regarding the value of the OT.
Body
I. FOR THE PEOPLE OF ISRAEL
A. WHAT IT’S PURPOSE WAS NOT
1. Not to change the promises made to Abraham – Galatians 3:15-17
a. Even a man’s covenant cannot be annulled or added to once confirmed
b. The Law which came 430 years later, cannot annul the covenant confirmed by God
2. Not to provide the promise made regarding the Seed – Galatians 3:16-18
a. To Abraham and his Seed (Christ) were the promises made
b. The Law did not make the promise of no effect, nor did it provide the inheritance regarding the Seed
B. WHAT IT’S PURPOSE WAS
1. It was added because of transgression – Galatians 3:19-23
a. for the purpose of revealing and manifesting to man his sinfulness
b. Till the Seed (Christ) should come to whom the promise was made
c. Not against the promise, but it could not provide life
d. Confined all under sin, that the promise might be given to those who believe
e. Kept them under guard, kept for the faith (Christ) afterward revealed
2. It was a tutor to lead them to Christ – Galatians 3:24-25
a. To bring them to Christ
b. Now that faith (Christ) has come, they are no longer under it
1) It came to an end when nailed to the cross – Colossians 2:14-17; Ephesians 2:14-16
2) Jews converted to Christ have died to the law – Romans 7:1-6
3) Thus it was replaced with a new covenant – Hebrews 7:18; 8:13; 9:9-10; 10:9
3. The Law was “holy”, “just”, and “good” (Romans 7:12), but it was designed to be temporary. With the coming of Christ and His New Covenant, it came to end as a system of justification (Galatians 5:4).
4. What purpose, if any, does the Law (Old Testament) serve the people of Christ today…?
II. FOR THE PEOPLE OF CHRIST
A. FOR OUR LEARNING
1. Note carefully what Paul wrote in Romans 15:4
a. Things “written before” (i.e., the OT) were “written for our learning”
b. The OT was written and preserved especially for Christians’ benefit!
c. The OT provides “patience and comfort”, that we “might have hope”!
2. The OT provides a record of God’s faithfulness, how He kept His promises:
a. To Abraham and the nation of Israel
b. To judge the wicked and avenge the righteous
c. To forgive the penitent, and protect the humble
3. As we read this history of God’s dealings with Israel, it gives us hope that God will keep His promises to us!
B. FOR OUR ADMONITION
1. Paul had just reminded the Corinthians of Israel’s fall in the wilderness 1 Corinthians 10:1-10
2. Note carefully what he says in 1 Corinthians 10:11
a. The events described may have happened to Israel
b. “They were written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the ages have come”
c. Again, the OT was written and preserved especially for the benefit of Christians!
3. We should not be surprised to see how often NT writers appealed to the OT in their efforts to admonish Christians
a. As the writer of Hebrews, in exhorting Christians to remain steadfast – Hebrews 3:12-19
b. As James, in encouraging Christians to be patient in their suffering James 5:7-11
c. As Peter, in warning of false teachers and scoffers – 2 Peter 2-3
4. We need to study the OT to be reminded of the very real danger of apostasy!
C. FOR OUR WISDOM
1. Paul noted that Timothy had known the “Holy Scriptures” since childhood 2 Timothy 3:14-15
a. When Timothy was a child, the only scriptures available was the OT
b. So Paul clearly had the OT in view
2. He said the OT is “able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ”
3. How is this possible? The OT provides:
a. The fall of man and the rise of sin
b. The background and development of God’s scheme of redemption
c. Hundreds of Messianic prophecies which describe what to expect when He comes
4. One cannot hope to fully understand such books of the New Testament like:
a. Hebrews, without an understanding of the Levitical priesthood
b. Revelation, without an understanding of OT prophecy and apocalyptic literature
5. If one wishes to be wise concerning their salvation in Christ, it is imperative to study the Old Testament!
D. FOR OUR PROFIT
1. “All Scripture” includes the OT scriptures, especially in this context – 2 Timothy 3:16-17
2. Therefore the OT is profitable for:
a. Doctrine – such as the nature of God, man, and sin
b. Reproof and correction – the need for repentance
c. Instruction in righteousness – how to live godly lives
3. Thus the apostles frequently appealed to the OT when teaching Christians their conduct:
a. E.g., Romans 12:19-21; 2 Corinthians 6:16-7:1; 9:7-10
b. E.g., James 2:20-26
c. E.g., 1 Peter 3:8-12
4. While certain aspects of justification and worship have changed, many principles of righteousness remain the same under the New Covenant
Conclusion
1. For the people of Israel, the Law served a valuable purpose
a. It helped them to understand the nature of sin, and the need for redemption
b. It guided them until the promised Seed (Christ), through Whom God blessed all nations
2. For the people of Christ, the Law continues to serve a valuable purpose
a. For our learning and admonition
b. For our wisdom and spiritual profit
While we rejoice in the salvation now offered through faith in Christ, let us never underestimate the value of studying the Old Testament. Its many examples of obedience through faith (cf. Hebrews 11:1-40) should inspire us to likewise walk in “the steps of faith”
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Prayer Power
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(The Power of Prayer)
Introduction
1. Jesus anticipated that people would become slack in their prayers…
a. Telling the parable of the persistent widow, that people might always pray – Luke 18:1-7
b. Wondering if He would find faith on earth (i.e., people praying) when He returned – Luke 18:8
2. Paul frequently exhorted Christians to be diligent in their prayers…
a. “praying always with all prayer and supplication…” – Ephesians 6:18
b. “Continue earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving” – Colossians 4:2
c. “Pray without ceasing” – 1 Thessalians 5:17
3. If we have become slack in our prayers, might that be an indication that we do not appreciate the power of prayer? Have we forgotten what a privilege it is to pray?
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I. EXAMPLES OF THE POWER OF PRAYER
A. THERE IS FORGIVENESS FROM GOD…
1. The Christian can find forgiveness through the blood of Christ – 1 John 1:7-10
2. Thus the erring Christian is told to repent and pray – Acts 8:22
3. Don’t you want the assurance of knowing that your sins are forgiven?
B. THERE IS PEACE FROM GOD…
1. The antidote to anxiety is to pray – Philippians 4:6
2. The Christian will find their hearts and minds guarded by the peace of God – Philippians 4:7
3. Don’t you want the peace of mind and heart that surpasses understanding?
C. THERE IS STRENGTH FROM GOD…
1. Paul prayed that the Ephesians might be strengthened in the inner man – Ephesians 3:14-16, 20
2. When we need to be strong, Christians can likewise pray for themselves!
3. Don’t you want the power that is beyond our comprehension?
D. THERE IS OPPORTUNITY FROM GOD…
1. Paul realized that God provided him opportunity to teach others – 1 Corinthians 3:5 (NASB)
2. He knew that the Lord often opened doors for such opportunities – 1 Corinthians 16:9; 2 Corinthians 2:12
3. He therefore requested prayer that such opportunities would continue – Colossians 4:3
4. Don’t you want the Lord to give you opportunity to lead others to Christ?
E. THERE IS BOLDNESS FROM GOD…
1. When the apostles needed boldness, they prayed and God delivered – Acts 4:23-31
2. When Paul needed boldness, he asked for prayers in his behalf – Ephesians 6:19-20
3. Don’t you want boldness when you speak to others about Christ?
F. THERE IS WISDOM FROM GOD…
1. Wisdom is not knowledge, but insight that makes the best use of the knowledge one has
2. The Christian is promised wisdom through prayer without doubt – James 1:5-8
3. Don’t you want the wisdom that comes from above?
G. THERE IS HEALING FROM GOD…
1. Those who are sick should ask elders to pray for them – James 5:14-15
2. Those who have sinned should confess, and we should pray for one another – James 5:16
3. Don’t you want the aid of God whenever in need of physical or spiritual healing?
H. THERE IS TRANQUILITY FROM GOD…
1. The Scriptures proclaim God has ultimate control over the nations – Daniel 4:17; Romans 13:1-7
2. Thus we are commanded to pray for our rulers, that we may lead a quiet (tranquil, ASV) and peaceable life – 1 Timothy 2:1-4
3. Don’t you want to live in peace and tranquility and for others to as well?
Conclusion
1. The power of prayer can indeed be a blessing…
a. To the one who prays in faith
b. For those for whom prayers are offered
2. There is help in time of need from God…
a. We have a wonderful High Priest who understands our problems – Hebrews 4:14-15
b. Thus we can at anytime approach God boldly in prayer, to obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need – Hebrews 4:16
3. Don’t you want mercy and grace whenever needed, for yourself and for others?
4. Indeed, the effective fervent prayer of a righteous man (cf. James 5:16)…
a. “avails much” (NKJV)
b. “can accomplish much (NASB)
c. “has great power” (ESV)
d. “is powerful and effective” (NIV)
e. If such is true of one righteous man, how about the prayers of many righteous?
5. Do we believe in the power of prayer…?
a. Then let us pray always
b. Let us continue earnestly in prayer
c. Yes, let us “pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)!
6. But not all have the privilege of the power of prayer. In our next study, we will see why
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Luke 18:01-08 Power of Prayer
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Text: Luke 18:1-8
Introduction
1. Jesus anticipated that people would become slack in their prayers
a. Telling the parable of the persistent widow, that people might always pray-Luke 18:1-7
b. Wondering if He would find faith on earth (i.e., people praying) when He returned – Luke 18:8
2. Paul frequently exhorted Christians to be diligent in their prayers
a. “praying always with all prayer and supplication…” – Ephesians 6:18
b. “Continue earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving” – Colossians 4:2
c. “Pray without ceasing” – 1 Thessalonians 5:17
3. If we have become slack in our prayers, might that be an indication that we do not appreciate the power of Prayer? Have we forgotten what a privilege it is to pray?
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I. EXAMPLES OF THE POWER IN PRAYER
A. THERE IS FORGIVENESS FROM GOD
1. The Christian can find forgiveness through the blood of Christ – 1 John 1:7-10
2. Thus the erring Christian is told to repent and pray – Acts 8:22
3. Don’t you want the assurance of knowing that your sins are forgiven?
B. THERE IS PEACE FROM GOD
1. The antidote to anxiety is to pray – Philippians 4:6
2. The Christian will find their hearts and minds guarded by the peace of God – Philippians 4:7
3. Don’t you want the peace of mind and heart that surpasses understanding?
C. THERE IS STRENGTH FROM GOD
1. Paul prayed that the Ephesians might be strengthened in the inner man – Ephesians 3:14-16, 20
2. When we need to be strong, Christians can likewise pray for themselves!
3. Don’t you want the power that is beyond our comprehension?
D. THERE IS OPPORTUNITY FROM GOD
1. Paul realized that God provided him opportunity to teach others – 1 Corinthians 3:5
2. He knew that the Lord often opened doors for such opportunities – 1 Corinthians 16:9; 2 Corinthians 2:12
3. He therefore requested prayer that such opportunities would continue – Colossians 4:3
4. Don’t you want the Lord to give you opportunity to lead others to Christ?
E. THERE IS BOLDNESS FROM GOD
1. When the apostles needed boldness, they prayed and God delivered – Acts 4:23-31
2. When Paul needed boldness, he asked for prayers in his behalf – Ephesians 6:19-20
3. Don’t you want boldness when you speak to others about Christ?
F. THERE IS WISDOM FROM GOD
1. Wisdom is not knowledge, but insight that makes the best use of the knowledge one has
2. The Christian is promised wisdom through prayer without doubt – James 1:5-8
3. Don’t you want the wisdom that comes from above?
G. THERE IS HEALING FROM GOD
1. Those who are sick should ask elders to pray for them – James 5:14-15
2. Those who have sinned should confess, and we should pray for one another – James 5:16
3. Don’t you want the aid of God whenever in need of physical or spiritual healing?
H. THERE IS TRANQUILITY FROM GOD
1. The Scriptures proclaim God has ultimate control over the nations – Daniel 4:17; Romans 13:1-7
2. Thus we are commanded to pray for our rulers, that we may lead a quiet (tranquil, ASV) and peaceable life – 1 Timothy 2:1-4
3. Don’t you want to live in peace and tranquility and for others to as well?
Conclusion
1. The power of prayer can indeed be a blessing
a. To the one who prays in faith
b. For those for whom prayers are offered
2. There is help in time of need from God
a. We have a wonderful High Priest who understands our problems – Hebrews 4:14-15
b. Thus we can at anytime approach God boldly in prayer, to obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need – Hebrews 4:16
c. Don’t you want mercy and grace whenever needed, for yourself and for others?
3. Indeed, the effective fervent prayer of a righteous man (cf. James 5:16)
a. “avails much” (NKJV)
b. “can accomplish much (NASB)
c. “has great power” (ESV)
d. “is powerful and effective” (NIV)
e. If such is true of one righteous man, how about the prayers of many righteous?
4. Do we believe in the power of prayer?
a. Then let us pray always
b. Let us continue earnestly in prayer
5. Yes, let us “pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)!
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Faith within the Community
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Introduction
1. As Christians, we are but pilgrims and sojourners in this world…
a. We have duties regarding our spiritual growth and development – 1 Peter 2:11
b. Yet we also have a duty toward those who are still of this world – 1 Peter 2:12
2. One arena where we fulfill our duty to those in the world is “the community”…
a. The cities and neighborhoods in which we live
b. Relationships we maintain with our neighbors and fellow citizens
3. What impact should our faith have as members of the community…?
a. What effect should it have on us as neighbors and citizens?
b. How can our communities become a place to evangelize the lost?
4. Paul gave general instructions concerning Christians living in this world – 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12
a. To lead a quiet life
b. To mind our own business
c. To work with our own hands
d. To walk properly toward those who are outside
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I. THE CHRISTIAN AS NEIGHBOR
A. TO ASSOCIATE WITH OTHERS…
1. True, we are to be separate – cf. 2 Corinthians 6:14-18
2. But we must not confuse separation with isolation – 1 Corinthians 5:9-13
3. Jesus provides the example – cf. Mark 2:14-17
B. TO LIVE IN PEACE…
1. As much as it depends on us – cf. Romans 12:17-21
2. Careful to give no offense if possible – cf. 1 Corinthians 10:32-33
C. TO WALK IN LOVE AND WISDOM…
1. We owe it to our neighbors to love them – cf. Romans 13:8-10
2. Showing kindness through hospitality – Romans 12:13; 1 Timothy 3:2; 5:10
3. Making good use of our time – cf. Colossians 4:5
4. Speaking with truth and grace – cf. Colossians 4:6; Ephesians 4:25, 29
D. TO DO GOOD…
1. Diligent in doing good works – cf. Matthew 5:16; Luke 6:35; Galatians 6:10; 1 Thessalonians 5:15; 1 Timothy 6:17-18; Titus 3:8 1 Peter 2:12
2. Displaying honorable conduct – cf. 1 Peter 2:12; 2 Corinthians 8:21
3. Earning a good testimony from those outside – 1 Timothy 3:7; Acts 22:12
II. THE CHRISTIAN AS CITIZEN
A. OBEY THOSE IN AUTHORITY…
1. To be subject to rulers authorities – cf. Titus 3:1; Romans 13:1-5
2. To obey their laws, unless they conflict with God’s law – 1 Peter 2:13-16; Ac 5:27-29
B. GIVE HONOR AND PAY TAXES…
1. Honor all, including those in government – cf. 1 Peter 2:17
2. Pay taxes and customs, rendering fear (respect) and honor – Romans 13:6-7
C. PRAY FOR THOSE IN AUTHORITY…
1. For kings and all who are in authority – cf. 1 Timothy 2:1-2
2. That we might lead quiet and peaceable lives in all godliness and reverence – cf. 1 Timothy 2:2-3
D. Christians are a valuable asset for any country in which they live. Not only by their lawful obedience and prayers for those in authority, but by sharing the good news of God’s love – 1 Timothy 2:4-6
III. THE CHRISTIAN AS EVANGELIST
A. HOLDING FAST THE WORD OF LIFE…
1. We are to shine as lights in the world – cf. Philippians 2:14-15
2. Holding fast the Word of life – cf. Philippians 2:16
a. Some translations say “holding forth” (KJV, ASV) or “hold out” (NIV)
b. Certainly a duty expressed elsewhere – Mark 16:15; 1 Peter 2:9
3. In our communities, we have a duty to spread the Word!
B. INFLUENCING PEOPLE BY EXAMPLE…
1. Sometimes people won’t listen to our message
2. But we can still influence them for good by our example – 1 Peter 3:1-2
3. In our communities, we have a duty to confirm the Word by our lives!
Conclusion
1. Living in our community is a wonderful opportunity…
a. To be a positive influence on our friends and neighbors
b. To be a blessing for whatever country in which we find ourselves
2. Let your faith in the community be an opportunity…
a. To demonstrate the value of a vibrant faith in Christ!
b. To reach others for Jesus Christ through the gospel!
3. What kind of neighbors and citizens are we? Do we encourage others to glorify God…?
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Proverbs 01:20-33 The Call of Sophia
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Text: Proverbs 1:20-33
Introduction
1. We have seen that wisdom requires…
a. Fearing the Lord, so that we heed His Word – Proverbs 1:7
b. Respecting our parents, so that we listen to their advice – Proverbs 1:8-9
c. Not heeding friends who have us join them in doing evil – Proverbs 1:10-19
2. At this point, Solomon personifies wisdom as a woman…
a. A motif used several times in the first nine chapters – e.g., Proverbs 8:1-5; 9:1-6
b. A virtuous woman, later contrasted with the foolish woman who leads astray – Proverbs 9:13-18
[In Greek, the word for wisdom is sophia.]
To emphasize wisdom’s personification as a woman, we’ll use the name “Sophia” as we examine the text for our lesson (Pro 1:20-33). Notice first of all…
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I. SOPHIA’S PLEA
A. MADE PUBLICLY… (Proverbs 1:20-21)
1. She calls aloud outside, in the open squares
2. She cries in the streets, at the gates of the city
— Wisdom is not hidden, but reaches out to all who will listen – Proverbs 8:1-5
B. TO THOSE WHO NEED HER… (Proverbs 1:22)
1. Simple ones, who love simplicity – the morally naive, easily influenced by others
2. Scorners, who delight in their scorning – the cynical and defiant, prone to ridicule others
3. Fools, who hate knowledge – those hardened to the point of hating that which is good
— People caught up in varying degrees of hardness of heart – e.g., Ephesians 4:17-19
C. BE FILLED WITH HER WISDOM… (Proverbs 1:23)
1. Turn at her rebuke – respond to her warning, and repent
2. She will pour out her spirit on them, she will make known her words to them
— Wisdom stands ready to forgive and bless those who open their hearts and minds, much like God is for those who repent and turn – cf. Acts 3:19
[The grace of God is clearly seen in Sophia’s plea for all to heed her call for wisdom. Those caught up in varying degrees of hardness of heart are given opportunities to repent. But such opportunities do not last forever. Thus we now read of…]
II. SOPHIA’S WARNING
A. DIRECTED TO THOSE WHO REFUSED TO HEAR… (Proverbs 1:24-25)
1. Who refused her call, disregarded her outstretched hand
2. Who disdained her counsel and refused her rebuke
3. Just like Israel rejected her prophets – cf. 2 Chronicles 36:15-16
— Will we be like those who refuse to heed the Lord’s wisdom and warnings?
B. THERE WILL BE NO HELP WHEN CALAMITY COMES… (Proverbs 1:26-30)
1. She will laugh and mock when terror and destruction comes like a storm
2. Despite their cries for help, it will be too late
3. Because they hated knowledge when they had the opportunity
4. They did not choose the fear of the Lord (the beginning of wisdom)
5. They had rejected her counsel and despised her rebuke
— Heed wisdom is when it is being offered, not when it is too late! – Isaiah 55:6-7
C. THEY WILL SUFFER THE FATE OF THEIR FOLLY… (Proverbs 1:31)
1. They will eat the fruit of their own way
2. They will be full of their own fancies (foolish counsel)
— Contrast of the righteous in times of trial to that of the wicked – Proverbs 3:25-26; Proverbs 10:24-25
[Too many people wait until it is too late to do any good. To benefit from the value of wisdom, we need to learn from her while we still have time. Finally, let’s consider…]
III. SOPHIA’S SUMMARY
A. DESTRUCTION COMES UPON THE SIMPLE AND FOOLS… (Proverbs 1:32)
1. Because they turn away from the true wisdom God has to offer
2. Because they allowed their complacency (regarding wisdom) to destroy them
— Will we be naive and foolish when it comes to receiving God’s wisdom?
B. SAFETY AND SECURITY ARE FOR THOSE WILLING TO HEAR… (Proverbs 1:33)
1. Who are willing to listen to wisdom – cf. Proverbs 8:32-35
2. Whose fear of the Lord will enable them to fear no evil – Proverbs 3:21-26
— Are we willing to listen and heed the wisdom God offers?
Conclusion
1. From lady “Sophia”, we learn that wisdom is a lot like the grace of God…
a. Opportunity to obtain it does not last forever
b. The time will come when it is too late
2. Today is the day to learn wisdom from God…
a. Just like today is the day of salvation – cf. 2 Corinthians 6:1-2
b. Who will we be like: those who are simple and fools? Or those willing to hear God’s wisdom?
3. How we respond to “Sophia” reveals our true character and ultimate end…
“How long, you simple ones, will you love simplicity? For scorners delight in their scorning, And fools hate knowledge. Turn at my rebuke; Surely I will pour out my spirit on you; I will make my words known to you.” – Proverbs 1:22-23
4. Will You Heed The “Call of Sophia”?
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Proverbs 02:01-22 Benefits of Diligently Seeking Wisdom
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Text: Proverbs 2:1-22
Introduction
1. In chapter one of Proverbs, we began our study by noting…
a. The prologue, stating the purpose of the book – Proverbs 1:1-6
b. The theme of Proverbs, how the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge – Proverbs 1:7
c. The value of listening to one’s parents – Proverbs 1:8-9
d. The danger of evil companionship – Proverbs 1:10-19
e. The importance of listening to wisdom (Sophia) while there is opportunity – Proverbs 1:20-33
2. The second chapter describes the benefits of seeking after wisdom…
a. With an admonition to search for wisdom with diligence – Proverbs 2:1-4
b. With a list of benefits that will come from such a search – Proverbs 2:5-22
[The benefits of seeking after wisdom are found only if we seek with the proper disposition…]
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I. QUALITIES OF A DILIGENT SEARCH FOR WISDOM
A. AS EXPLAINED BY SOLOMON THEN…
1. It requires a willingness – Proverbs 2:1
a. To be receptive to the words of others
b. To treasure (highly value and remember) commands of wisdom
2. It requires an engagement – Proverbs 2:2-3
a. Of the ear (willing to hear wisdom)
b. Of the heart (willing to understand)
c. Of the mouth (willing to cry out for discernment and understanding)
3. It requires a high estimation – Proverbs 2:4
a. Seeking and searching
b. With the same fervor as seeking for silver and other hidden treasures
— Thus a diligent search for wisdom requires an “all out” effort on our part
B. AS EXPERIENCED BY CHRISTIANS TODAY…
1. It requires hearing the Word of God
a. Note: “incline your ear to wisdom” – Proverbs 2:2
b. Listening to preachers and teachers carefully (with all readiness) – Acts 17:11
c. Studying the Bible on your own (searched the Scriptures daily) – Acts 17:11
2. It requires meditating upon the Word of God
a. Note: “apply your heart to understanding” – Proverbs 2:2
b. Taking time to reflect and ponder on the Word – cf. Ph 4:8
c. Like the Psalmist sung of his meditations – cf. Psalm 119: 97-100
3. It requires diligent prayer for wisdom
a. Note: “cry out for discernment…lift up your voice for understanding” – Proverbs 2:3
b. We must ask in prayer with faith – James 1:5
c. We must persist in our asking – cf. Matthew 7:7-11
4. It requires the same effort others expend seeking for material wealth
a. Note: “seek her as silver…as for hidden treasures” – Proverbs 2:4
b. In Christ are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge – Colossians 2:3
c. Here’s a simple test to see if you are expending the proper effort to seek wisdom:
1) If you worked as hard for your employer as you do seeking for God’s wisdom…
2) …would you have your job very long?
— Finding God’s wisdom today requires the same diligence it did in Solomon’s day
[Is the effort worth it? Let’s go now to Proverbs 2:5-22 and find out what are the…]
II. BENEFITS OF A DILIGENT SEARCH FOR WISDOM
A. KNOWLEDGE OF GOD AND HIS PROTECTION…
1. You will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God
a. That fear of the Lord which is the beginning of knowledge – Proverbs 2:5a; cf. Proverbs 1:7
b. That knowledge of God, whose storehouse of wisdom and understanding He gives to the upright – Proverbs 2:5b-7a
2. You will have God’s providential protection guiding your life
a. He is a shield to those who walk uprightly – Proverbs 2:7b; cf. 30:5
b. He guards the paths of justice (which the righteous take) – Proverbs 2:8a; cf. Psalm 23:3
c. He preserves the way of His saints – Proverbs 2:8b; cf. Psalm 121:5-8
— What a blessing to go through life with God at your side!
B. MORAL DISCERNMENT FOR LIVING…
1. You will have great understanding
a. Of righteousness and justice – Proverbs 2:9a
b. Of equity (fairness) and every good path – Proverbs 2:9b; cf. David’s prayer, Psalm 143:8-10
2. You will have great discretion
a. Once wisdom enters your heart and knowledge is pleasant to you – Proverbs 2:10
b. They will preserve and keep you – Proverbs 2:11; cf. 6:22-23
— What a blessing to go through life with God’s wisdom at your disposal!
C. DELIVERANCE FROM EVIL MEN…
1. Who speak perverse things – Proverbs 2:12; e.g., Acts 20:30
2. Who leave upright paths, walk in the ways of darkness – Proverbs 2:13; e.g., 2 Peter 2:20-22
3. Who rejoice in doing evil, delight in the perversity of the wicked – Proverbs 2:14; cf. 10:23
4. Whose ways are crooked, and devious in their paths – Proverbs 2:15; e.g., 1:10-19
— Wisdom can deliver us from evil men and their evil ways!
D. DELIVERANCE FROM IMMORAL WOMEN…
1. The seductress flatters with her words – Proverbs 2:16; e.g., 7:5-21
2. The adulteress who forsakes her husband and covenant with God – Proverbs 2:17; cf. Mal 2:14
3. Whose house and paths lead to death, and the place of no return – Proverbs 2:18-19; cf. 9:13-18
— Wisdom can deliver us from immoral women and their destructive ways!
E. ENABLEMENT FOR RIGHTEOUS LIVING…
1. To walk in the way of goodness and keep to righteous paths – Proverbs 2:20; cf. Psalm 23:3, 6
2. To be upright and blameless, to dwell and remain in the land – Proverbs 2:21; cf. Psalm 37:3
3. Unlike the wicked and unfaithful, cut off and uprooted from the earth – Proverbs 2:22; cf. Psalm 37:37-38
— Wisdom can empower us to live more blessed, if not longer, lives on this earth!
Conclusion
1. Are not the benefits of wisdom worth the effort necessary to obtain it…?
a. To know God and enjoy His providential care?
b. To obtain discernment for making the right moral choices?
c. To be delivered from the shenanigans of evil men?
d. To be delivered from the seductions of immoral women?
e. To be able to walk in goodness and righteousness, living lives blessed by God?
2. And what is the effort required to obtain God’s wisdom…?
a. To hear the word of God (“incline your ear to wisdom”)
b. To meditate on the word of God (“apply your heart to understanding”)
c. To ask in faith for wisdom (“cry out for discernment…lift up your voice for understanding”)
d. To highly value its worth (“seek her as silver…as for hidden treasures”)
With such effort, one will not only find wisdom for daily, practical living, but will also find Jesus Christ, “in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.” – Colossians 2:3
He is indeed the greatest benefit of diligently seeking wisdom!
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Proverbs – The Wisdom Guide
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(The Christian’s Guide To Wisdom)
Introduction
1. The walk of the Christian is to be with “wisdom” as we go through life – Ephesians 5:15-17
a. Because time is fleeting, and the days are evil, we must make the best use of our time
b. Too many people today are wasting both their time and their lives by failing to exercise wisdom in their daily lives
2. Since the Word of God claims to equip man unto every good work (2 Timothy 3:16-17)
a. It is only natural to assume that it provides us with sound advice concerning daily living
b. And indeed it does, especially in “The Book of Proverbs” found in the Old Testament
3. The purpose of this series is to…
a. Introduce “The Book Of Proverbs” as a source of great wisdom
b. Encourage Christians to utilize this source in their efforts to walk wisely
Body
I. THE PURPOSE OF THE BOOK OF PROVERBS
A. CLEARLY STATED IN THE FIRST SIX VERSES OF THE BOOK…
1. “To know wisdom and instruction, to perceive the words of understanding”
2. “To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, judgment, and equity”
3. To give to the…
a. Simple (naive) – “prudence”
b. Young man – “knowledge and discretion”
c. Wise man – “increased learning”
d. Man of understanding – “wise counsel”
B. THE BOOK IS THEREFORE DESIGNED…
1. To make a person wise!
2. To learn how:
a. To act wisely and righteously
b. To treat others with fairness
3. To give…
a. To the ignorant, common sense
b. To the young, sound advice
c. To the wise, even more wisdom
[At this point, it might be appropriate to ask: “What exactly is wisdom, and why is it so valuable?”]
II. THE DEFINITION AND VALUE OF WISDOM
A. DEFINING WISDOM…
1. “Wisdom…may be defined as a realistic approach to the problems of life…” – 20th Century Encyclopedia of Religious Knowledge
2. Homer Hailey offered this definition of wisdom: “Wisdom is INSIGHT into the underlying causes and significance or consequence of things, which INSIGHT enables one to apply to the best end the knowledge which he has.”
3. To illustrate:
a. You are yelled at by your boss, wife, or brother in Christ…
1) You could react in different ways
a) You could strike back physically, or verbally
b) You could do nothing
c) You could react with a soft, kind reply – cf. Proverbs 15:1
2) Wisdom is that insight which helps you to decide what is the best thing to do
b. Someone makes sexual advances towards you…
1) Again, you could react in several different ways
2) But wisdom will enable you to react in the proper way
B. THE VALUE OF WISDOM…
1. The first nine chapters of “The Book Of Proverbs” are actually discourses extolling the value of wisdom
2. The virtue of wisdom is seen in the prosperous life it can produce – Proverbs 3:13-18
3. Wisdom’s value is also found in guarding us against many pitfalls that are out there – Proverbs 3:21-26
4. Some of the “pitfalls” that are frequently warned against in “The Book Of Proverbs”:
a. Evil companionship – Proverbs 1:10-19
1) They want you to join them in their wrong doing
2) But if you do, you will be caught up with them in their own self-destruction
3) Wisdom would preserve you from this
b. The immoral woman – Proverbs 5:1-14
1) An “affair” might appear exciting and harmless
2) But immorality is one of the quickest ways to destroy one’s self physically, emotionally, and spiritually!
3) The exercise of wisdom would spare one from total ruin
c. Laziness – Proverbs 6:6-11
1) It may be good to do nothing
2) But sloth guarantees failure and poverty
3) Wisdom provides a much better way of life
[Certainly we should see that wisdom is of great value. But let’s go one step further and notice in particular the value of “The Book Of Proverbs” in regards to having wisdom…]
III. THE VALUE OF “THE BOOK OF PROVERBS”
A. WISDOM IS NORMALLY GAINED THROUGH ONE OF TWO SOURCES…
1. Through years of “trial and error”
a. This is the source when a person chooses to listen only to one’s own experiences
b. But there are disadvantages to gaining wisdom this way:
1) Much of one’s lifetime can be wasted trying to learn through trial and error
2) One is forced to live with the consequences of their “errors”
c. Sadly, this is the only way many people gain wisdom, and that only if they survive their “errors”!
2. Through the proven experience of others
a. This is possible only if one is willing to heed the advice of others
b. There are clear advantages to gaining wisdom this way:
1) You can avoid wasting years of your life through trial and error, thus living life to its fullest measure!
2) You experience life unburdened with the consequences of earlier mistakes
c. Certainly this method of gaining wisdom is far superior!
B. THE SUPERIOR WAY OF GAINING WISDOM IS WHAT MAKES “THE BOOK OF PROVERBS” SO VALUABLE!
1. Instead of wasting our short time here on earth trying to discover wisdom through the process of trial and error, we can go straight to “The Book Of Proverbs”
2. There we can find wisdom that is:
a. Divinely inspired by God!
b. Proven to be true by generations of righteous men and women who lived out their lives by the teachings found in it
c. Expressed concisely in ways easy to remember (Proverb: “a short sentence based on long experience” – Cervantes in Don Quixote)
3. Yes, the value of “The Book Of Proverbs” is that it provides the wisdom of God Himself!
a. This is not to say that it takes little effort to glean from this wisdom – cf. Proverbs 2:1-6
b. But for those who will look to God through His Word and prayer (cf. James 1:5-8), the promise of God is that wisdom will be granted them
c. And this is a far better way to find wisdom than the way most people do it!
Conclusion
1. I hope this introductory lesson has made you want to study “The Book Of Proverbs” in order to glean it’s treasures of wisdom waiting for us
2. In succeeding lessons, we will survey “The Book Of Proverbs” by considering the wisdom it offers pertaining to various relationships we have in this life (e.g., with family, work, God)
3. Of course, no discussion concerning wisdom can be complete without mentioning Jesus Christ, “in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.” – Colossians 2:3
a. Without Jesus Christ in your life, there is no way to be truly wise.
b. Have you come to Christ…?
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Proverbs 01:07 The Theme of Proverbs
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Text: Proverbs 1:7
Introduction
1. In our previous study we considered the purpose of the book of Proverbs…
a. To know wisdom, perceive words of understanding – Proverbs 1:2
b. To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, judgment, and equity – Proverbs 1:3
c. To give prudence to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion – Proverbs 1:4
d. To increase learning for a wise man, to give counsel to a man of understanding – Proverbs 1:5
e. To understand proverbs and enigmas, the words of the wise and their riddles – Proverbs 1:6
2. In this study, we shall focus our attention on the theme of the book…
a. Found in Proverbs 1:7 (read)
b. Stated in the form of antithetical parallelism
c. In which the repeated terms of a poetic couplet are opposite in meaning
d. Typical of thought rhyme (as opposed to word rhyme) found in Hebrew poetry
Body
I. THE BEGINNING OF KNOWLEDGE
A. THE FEAR OF THE LORD EXPLAINED…
1. The term yara’ (fear) is the common word for fear in the OT and has a basic three-fold range of meanings
a. Dread, terror – Deuteronomy 1:29; John 1:10
b. To stand in awe (in reference to a king) – 1 Kings 3:28
c. To revere, to respect (in regards to parents) – Leviticus 19:3
2. Notice when God descended upon Sinai amid geophysical convulsions – cf. Exodus 20:18-20
a. Moses encouraged the Israelites to not be afraid of God arbitrarily striking them dead for no reason (“Do not fear!”)
b. He informed them that the Lord revealed Himself in such a terrifying manner to scare them from sinning (“God has come to test you, and that His fear may be before you, so that you may not sin.”)
3. Thus there is also a place for such fear of the Lord in the life of a Christian
a. We should fear God, not man – Matthew 10:28
b. The early church walked in the fear of the Lord – Acts 9:31
c. We are to work out our salvation with fear and trembling – Philippians 2:12
d. We should be fearful of apostasy, serving God with godly fear – Hebrews 10:26-31; Hebrews 12:28-29
— The fear of the LORD is expressed in reverential submission to his will
B. THE FEAR OF THE LORD ESTEEMED…
1. From the book of Proverbs we learn concerning the fear of the Lord:
a. It is the beginning of knowledge – Proverbs 1:7
b. It will cause one to hate evil – Proverbs 8:13
c. It will prolong life – Proverbs 10:27
d. It provides strong confidence and is a fountain of life – Proverbs 14:26-27
e. It prompts one to depart from evil – Proverbs 16:6
f. It leads to a satisfying life, and spares one from much evil – Proverbs 19:23
g. It is the way to riches, honor, and life! – Proverbs 22:4
2. Thus without the fear of the Lord:
a. We deprive ourselves of the treasures of God’s wisdom and knowledge
b. We will flirt with evil and be corrupted by it
c. Our lives are likely to be shortened by our refusal to heed God’s word (e.g., suffering sexually transmitted diseases if we do not heed His Word on sexual relationships)
d. We will not come to know the love of God that gives us assurance and confidence of our salvation
e. When fallen into sin, we will not be motivated to repent and turn to God!
f. We will not be motivated to truly “work out our own salvation”
— The fear of the Lord should be a highly regarded and sought after trait to develop!
[The fear of the Lord serves as the beginning or principal part of becoming truly wise. Now let’s notice the second half of Proverbs 1:7 which reveals…]
II. THE WAY OF FOLLY
A. THE FOOLISH DESPISE WISDOM…
1. The Hebrew word evil (fool) refers to a person characterized by moral folly
2. It is an adjective meaning foolish in the sense of one who hates wisdom and walks in folly, despising wisdom and morality
3. This foolish disdain for wisdom expressed elsewhere in Proverbs – Proverbs 1:22; Proverbs 17:16; Proverbs 18:2
— For one to despise the wisdom of God (such as found in this book) is truly foolish!
B. THE FOOLISH DISREGARD INSTRUCTION…
1. Not interested in wisdom, they are unwilling to heed the counsel of others
2. As expressed by the voice of wisdom herself – cf. Proverbs 1:25, 30
3. Lack of such counsel leads to defeat and failure – Proverbs 11:14; Proverbs 15:22
4. The fool listens only to his own heart – Proverbs 12:15
5. But wisdom and delight can be attained through the counsel of others – Proverbs 19:20; Proverbs 27:9
— In the book of Proverbs, the fool is characterized mostly by his or her unwillingness to listen to the advice of others (God, parents, friends, etc.)
Conclusion
1. Here then is the underlying theme throughout the book of Proverbs…
a. Develop the fear of the Lord if you desire to become truly wise
b. Discount the warnings and counsel of others and you will be a fool!
2. As Christians, let us be truly wise by developing the fear of the Lord…
a. For His knowledge has given us great and precious promises – 2 Peter 1:2-4
b. It behooves us to perfect holiness in the fear of God – cf. 2 Corinthians 7:1
Shall we be wise, or shall we be fools…?
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An Introduction to Proverbs – Proverbs 01:01-06
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Text: Proverbs 1:1-6
Introduction
1. There is a great need for wisdom in our society today…
a. Lack of wisdom is destroying the lives of many young people, and making fools out of some who are older
b. Marriages are destroyed, friendships lost, souls doomed for lack of wisdom
2. The walk of the Christian is to be with wisdom as we go through life… – Ephesians 5:15-17
a. Because time is fleeting, and the days are evil, we must make the best use of our time
b. Too many today are wasting both their time and their lives by failing to exercise wisdom in their daily lives
3. The Word of God equips man unto every good work… – 2 Timothy 3:16-17
a. It is only natural to assume that it provides us with sound advice concerning daily living
b. Indeed it does, especially in The Book of Proverbs found in the Old Testament
4. The book begins by identifying Solomon, son of David, king of Israel, as the author…
a. Who was granted wisdom by God – 2 Chronicles 1:7-12
b. Who became famous for his wisdom, and wrote over 3,000 proverbs – 1 Kings 4:29-34
5. The book also contains proverbs and wisdom from other sources…
a. The words of Agur the son of Jakeh to Ithiel and Ucal – Proverbs 30:1-33
b. The words of King Lemuel, taught him by his mother – Proverbs 31:1-31
Body
I. THE PURPOSE OF THE BOOK
A. STATED IN THE FIRST SIX VERSES…
1. “To know wisdom and instruction, to perceive the words of understanding”
2. “To receive the instruction of wisdom, justice, judgment, and equity”
3. To give to the…
a. Simple (naive) – “prudence”
b. Young man – “knowledge and discretion”
c. Wise man – “increased learning”
d. Man of understanding – “wise counsel”
B. THE BOOK IS DESIGNED…
1. To make a person wise!
2. To learn how to:
a. Act wisely and righteously
b. Treat others with fairness
3. To give…
a. The ignorant, common sense
b. The young, sound advice
c. The wise, even more wisdom
II. THE DEFINITION AND VALUE OF WISDOM
A. DEFINING WISDOM…
1. “Wisdom…may be defined as a realistic approach to the problems of life…” – 20th Century Encyclopedia of Religious Knowledge
2. Homer Hailey offered this definition of wisdom: “Wisdom is insight into the underlying causes and significance or consequence of things, which insight enables one to apply to the best end the knowledge which he has.”
3. To illustrate:
a. You are yelled at by your boss, wife, or brother in Christ…
1) You could react in different ways
a) Strike back physically, or verbally
b) Do nothing
c) React with a soft, kind reply – cf. Proverbs 15:1
2) Wisdom is that insight which helps you to decide what is the best thing to do
b. Someone makes sexual advances towards you…
1) Again, you could react in several different ways
2) But wisdom will enable you to react in the proper way
B. VALUATING WISDOM…
1. The book of Proverbs teaches the value of wisdom
2. The virtue of wisdom is seen in the prosperous life it can produce – Proverbs 3:13-18
3. Its value is also found in guarding us against many pitfalls – Proverbs 3:21-26
4. Some “pitfalls” frequently warned against in The Book Of Proverbs:
a. Evil companionship – Proverbs 1:10-19
b. The immoral woman – Proverbs 5:1-14
c. Laziness – Proverbs 6:6-11
III. THE VALUE OF THE BOOK
A. WISDOM COMES FROM TWO SOURCES…
1. Trial and error (personal experience)
a. One’s own experiences can certainly be a source of wisdom
b. But there are disadvantages to gaining wisdom this way:
1) Much of one’s lifetime can be wasted learning through trial and error
2) One must live with the consequences of their errors
c. Sadly, this is the only way some gain wisdom and that only if they survive their errors!
2. Counsel from others (proven experience)
a. This is possible if one is willing to heed the advice of others
b. There are clear advantages to gaining wisdom this way:
1) You avoid wasting years through trial and error, thus living life to its fullest measure!
2) You experience life unburdened with the consequences of earlier mistakes
B. THIS MAKES THE BOOK OF PROVERBS VALUABLE…
1. Instead of wasting our short time here on earth trying to discover wisdom through the process of trial and error, we can go straight to The Book Of Proverbs
2. There we can find wisdom that is:
a. Divinely inspired by God!
b. Proven true by generations of righteous people who lived out their lives by it
c. Expressed concisely in ways easy to remember (Proverb: “a short sentence based on long experience” – Cervantes in Don Quixote)
3. Yes, the value of The Book Of Proverbs is that it provides the wisdom of God Himself!
a. This is not to say that it takes little effort to glean from this wisdom – cf. Proverbs 2:1-6
b. But for those who will look to God through His Word and prayer, the promise of God is that wisdom will be granted them – cf. James 1:5-8
c. And this is a far better way to find wisdom than the way most people do it!
Conclusion
1. I hope this introductory lesson has made you want to study The Book Of Proverbs in order to glean its treasury of wisdom
2. In succeeding lessons, we will examine The Book Of Proverbs more closely by considering the wisdom it offers pertaining to various themes (family, work, God, etc.)
Our next study will focus on the theme of the book of Proverbs… The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, But fools despise wisdom and instruction. – Proverbs 1:7
Of course, no discussion concerning wisdom can be complete without mentioning Jesus Christ…
“in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.” – Colossians 2:3
3. Without Jesus Christ in our lives, there is no way to be truly wise.
Have you come to Christ through obedience to His gospel…?
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Wisdom Regarding Marriage – Ecclesiastes 09:09
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Text: Ecclesiastes 9:9
Introduction
1. In this study, we will consider what it says about being a good spouse
2. The importance of this subject should be evident
a. Happiness in life is greatly affected by how successful we are in marriage
b. Even our usefulness to the Lord is affected by the relationship between husbands and wives
c. For example, a husband’s prayers can be hindered by his treatment of his wife
– Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. – 1 Peter 3:7
3. Appreciating the importance of a good marriage, let’s begin with that beautiful passage in Proverbs 31:10-31.
Body
I. THE VIRTUOUS WIFE
A. THE IDEAL WIFE
1. Trustworthy – Proverbs 31:11
a. The husband can safely entrust her with his income
b. She will not squander what he gives her, but use it in a manner that benefits them both
2. Filled with an enduring love – Proverbs 31:12
a. Devoted to doing her husband good all her life
b. Just as she vowed in the wedding ceremony
3. Has practical skills – Proverbs 31:13-15, 21-22
a. Such as sewing
b. And cooking
4. Industrious – Proverbs 31:16, 24
a. Makes investments (buys land and plants a vineyard)
b. Provides extra income (makes clothing and sells to merchants)
5. Compassionate – Proverbs 31:20
a. Helping the poor
b. Reaching out to the needy
6. Strong character – Proverbs 31:25
a. Character matters, and she has developed a strong one
b. Just as Peter stressed in 1 Peter 3:3-4
7. Speaks words of wisdom and kindness – Proverbs 31:26
a. She is thus concerned about what proceeds from her mouth
b. Just as Paul stressed in Ephesians 4:29
8. Diligently sees to her family’s need – Proverbs 31:27
a. Makes whatever preparation necessary – cf. Proverbs 31:15
b. So that her family does not go in want – cf. Proverbs 31:21
9. Fears the Lord – Proverbs 31:29-30
a. She understands that this quality is more important and praiseworthy than physical beauty
b. With the fear of the Lord, she has the potential for great wisdom – Proverbs 1:7
10. Such are the qualities of being a good spouse
B. WHAT A WIFE DOES NOT WANT TO BE
1. Contentious:
– Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman. – Proverbs 21:9
– Better to dwell in the wilderness, Than with a contentious and angry woman. – Proverbs 21:19
2. Hateful:
– For three things the earth is perturbed, Yes, for four it cannot bear up: for a servant when he reigns, A fool when he is filled with food, a hateful woman when she is married, And a maidservant who succeeds her mistress. – Proverbs 30:21-23
3. Both make it where the husband does not want to be around her
[Enough about being a good wife; where can we go in Proverbs to learn about being a good husband…?]
II. THE VIRTUOUS HUSBAND
A. WHERE’S THE PASSAGE DESCRIBING THE VIRTUOUS MAN…?
1. A question often raised by women, sometimes suggesting there is none
2. But, bear in mind that the Proverbs are primarily addressed to the man!
a. There is half a chapter describing the virtuous woman
b. There are thirty plus chapters describing the virtuous man!
3. The entire book, if followed, produces a husband any woman would love
B. THE IDEAL HUSBAND
1. Values his wife highly:
– He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD. – Proverbs 18:22
– Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from the LORD. – Proverbs 19:14
a. He realizes that she is a gift from God
b. Especially when she proves to be prudent
2. Gives his wife her due:
– Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates. – Proverbs 31:31
a. Allows his wife the opportunity to develop her own abilities
b. Lets her reap the benefits of her own labors
c. i.e., does not treat her simply as an appendage of himself
3. Praises his wife profusely:
– Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” – Proverbs 31:28-29
a. Praises her frequently
b. Does not take her for granted
4. Trusts his wife implicitly:
– The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. – Proverbs 31:11
a. Demonstrates a willingness to trust her
b. In such areas as her intelligence, her faithfulness, her abilities
c. Is not jealous or suspicious
5. Content with his wife’s love – Proverbs 5:15-21 READ
a. Does not look elsewhere
b. Will save him and his family much harm
6. A few examples of how Proverbs can help a man be a good spouse
Conclusion
1. So much of the joy and meaning of life that God would have us enjoy is lost if there is not a good marriage
2. As Solomon wrote in another book of wisdom
– Live joyfully with the wife whom you love all the days of your vain life which He has given you under the sun, all your days of vanity; for that is your portion in life, and in the labor which you perform under the sun. – Ecclesiastes 9:9
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